Habit-Forming Things We Can Do As We’re Aging

For many of us as we age, issues concerning our memory have become front and center. Some are alarmed and some become even angry (ha ha …me)! How could I forget “that”? Amazed and astounded that I let that slip my mind.

After happening so many times, it was suggested to me that I should try to form particular habits of important activities, thus putting less pressure on actually remembering those things. I’ll share some of them with you:

Remembering to Take Medication or Nutritional Supplements

If you’re currently on medication or are taking nutritional supplements on a daily basis, many are finding that we sometimes forget whether we’ve taken the required dosage or not. Due to this, there have been instances of some folks over-medicating or taking extra supplement – simply because they can’t remember whether they’ve already taken them or not. 

This started happening to me so what I did was to get a rectangular box that could hold all the containers of all items I’m currently taking. These can be easily found at The Dollar Store, Walmart, Target, etc. I then got an index card (you can use anything you prefer) and placed it at the end of the box. In front of the card I placed all the containers of the items for the day.

As I take each one, I place its container behind the index card in the back of my box and I repeat the process until they are all behind it. The card will now of course be in the very front of your box.

You might ask “why not get one of those days-of-the-week thingies and fill them up daily?”  Been there and done that! It takes up too much time to fill them and besides, I’ve had friends who misplaced them in their coming and going throughout the day. This box with the partition method works really well.

Remembering Medical and/or Dental appointments

This is a regular occurrence for middleagers and it can be both costly and embarrassing. One remedy for this, and the one I use, is to calendar these dates in as many places as you possibly can, i.e., your cell phone, computer, diary/calendar in your office, night stand … wherever you keep one. Set up alerts for these upcoming appointments as well so you’ll know ahead of that date, what’s upcoming.

Form life-changing habits

Try doing your regular activities – whatever they may be – at the same time each day. When your day is not structured, you’re basically just going through the day all “Willy Nilly” and before you know it, the day would have ended with not much being done.

If you prefer to work out in the mornings, do just that each day. Prepare and have your breakfast at a certain time each day. The same thing with errands you may have to run. Preparing and having dinner – the same thing. 

Once you get into this routine, you’ll find it becomes habit-forming which is exactly what you want.

Go to bed at the same time each night.

This too will become habit forming, especially if you’re having sleeping issues.

Wake up at the same time every day.

Your body will become accustomed to this time and you’ll get to a point where you won’t even need an alarm!

Retirement Life Design: Turning Your Hobby into a Second Act Career

Retirement is usually a time of relaxation, travel, and finally getting around to all those hobbies and maybe some projects you never had time for. But what if one of those hobbies or passions held the key to a whole new chapter in your life? Something from which you can earn money? Hellooo!!!

For many retirees, that’s exactly the case. I am a true example of this. Throughout the years, I’ve always loved making fresh vegetable and fruit juices instead of store-bought ones. It got to a point where friends and relatives started requesting that I “make enough” for them to have some too, with offers to actually purchase them from me. Right then and there, a retirement money-making opportunity was born. Fell right into my lap and I went with it.

Why Would You Want to Do This?

There are many advantages to leveraging your hobby/passion in retirement.  First, you already possess a strong foundation of knowledge and likely years of experience with that particular thing. This already translates into credibility and sets you apart from beginners. Second, the inherent enjoyment factor keeps you motivated! Unlike a traditional job, your work won’t feel like work at all! Finally, there’s the potential to turn it into profit, adding a financial boost to your golden years. Now there’s your why!

How Could You Turn This Into a Profitable Second-Act Career?

Discover Your Passion/Identify Your Niche: Within your hobby, is there a specific area you excel in or particularly enjoy? Maybe you’re a woodworking whiz who can craft custom furniture, or a gardening guru with a knack for landscape design, or a master cook who can have people coming back for more. What truly excites you? Whatever that thing is, get really clear on what brings you such joy. Refine your focus to attract a dedicated clientele.

Bridge the Skill Gap: Be honest about your skill set. Are there any qualifications or certifications needed to elevate your hobby into a professional service? Consider taking workshops or online courses to bridge any knowledge gaps.

Monetize Your Expertise: There are numerous ways to make money from your hobby/passion so is there a way to actually generate income from it? You could sell online or at craft fairs or on marketplaces like Etsy, offer consulting services, or even conduct workshops and classes. Explore the options that best suit your interests and skill set.

Build Your Network: Don’t underestimate the power of networking! Attend industry events, connect with local artisans or businesses related to your hobby/passion and leverage social media to build an audience. Let people know about your new venture!

Time Commitment: How much time are you realistically willing to dedicate to this new venture? Don’t forget that retirement is about freedom, so don’t feel pressured to turn your passion into a full-time job.

Ready To Take The Plunge? Here Are Some Additional Tips:

Talk to other retirees: Network with those who have successfully transitioned their hobbies into careers.

Start small: Begin by offering your services part-time or on a limited basis.

Embrace the digital world: Utilize online platforms to showcase your work, connect with clients, and establish your brand.

Don’t Forget the Fun Part!

Remember, retirement is a time to enjoy and redefine yourself. Embrace the freedom to explore your passions and create a fulfilling second-act career that brings you joy, therefore focus on building a career that complements your lifestyle – not one that replaces it!  Maintain a healthy work-life balance and prioritize the activities that bring you joy.

Now an Empty Nester? Transform Your Empty Nest into a Joyful Retreat

One Less Egg to Fry? … Yes? No?

Your last child has left home, and a bittersweet silence has settled in your once-bustling home.  You’re now an empty nester. While a part of you might miss the whirlwind of activity, another part recognizes an exciting opportunity. So, instead of letting nostalgia linger, why not view this as an exciting opportunity? It’s time to reclaim your space and transform your empty nest into a joyful retreat – a haven that reflects your passions and fosters well-being. Your empty nest can now be transformed into a joyful retreat, a haven tailored to your passions and needs. 

Changes You Could Make

  • Reclaim your rooms: Bedrooms that once echoed with teenage angst can now be converted into a home gym, a serene reading nook, or a dedicated workspace.
  • Reshuffle the furniture: Living areas designed for family gatherings can be redesigned for entertaining adult friends or simply creating a cozy conversation space.
  • Embrace light and air: Open floor plans can foster a sense of connection throughout the home.
  • Embrace the Joy of Less: Before diving into renovations, take some time to declutter. Let go of items your children have outgrown. Donate gently used toys and clothes, and have a ruthless garage sale for anything else. Surround yourself with things that spark joy and reflect who you are now.
  • Personalization: Display cherished artwork, travel souvenirs, or family heirlooms. Paint a room in a color that invigorates you. This is your space – make it uniquely yours!
  • Home Office Haven: Convert a spare bedroom into a serene and functional home office. Invest in a comfortable desk and chair, and ensure proper lighting to create a productive environment.
  • Hobby Haven: Transform a room into a dedicated space for your hobbies. If you love to paint, set up an art studio with proper ventilation and storage.
  • Guest Getaway: Prepare a welcoming guest room for visiting friends and family. Add plush towels, comfortable bedding, and a cozy reading nook to make them feel right at home.
  • Master Suite Oasis: Create a spa-like retreat in your master bedroom. Splurge on a luxurious mattress, and add a soaking tub or an in-walk shower.
  • Sunroom Sanctuary: Build a sunroom addition to your home, a perfect place to relax and enjoy natural light year-round. Decorate with comfortable furniture and plants to create a tranquil escape.
  • Home Theater Hideaway: Convert your basement into a home theatre for movie nights and entertaining. Invest in a high-quality projector and surround sound system for an immersive cinematic experience.
  • Upgrade your bathroom: Transform your bathroom into a spa-like retreat with a luxurious soaking tub or a relaxing rain shower.
  • Create an outdoor oasis: Design a patio or balcony perfect for enjoying evenings under the stars. String up some fairy lights, add comfy seating, and create an inviting space to unwind.
  • Smart home technology: Invest in smart home features that can enhance your comfort and security.

Additional Tips

  • Consider your budget, be realistic and stick with it.
  • Seek inspiration from home magazines, home improvement websites or Pinterest boards: https://www.pinterest.com/ 
  • If you’re handy you could tackle some of the projects with family and friends to save on costs.
  • For large scale projects, hire a qualified contractor to make sure the job is correctly done.

Remember, it’s your space, so don’t be afraid to get creative!  There are no wrong answers when it comes to transforming your empty nest into a joyful retreat. Your empty nest doesn’t have to feel empty. By repurposing or transforming your space, you can create a joyful retreat that reflects who you are now and fosters well-being for the years to come.